DIFFERENT LIVES OF JAY

“Be Yourself. Everyone else is already taken.”

O.Wilde

I am born in Krakow, Poland, where I spend first 20 years of my life. Ever since I remember I had a feeling that “I don’t belong here”…

As a boy I want to become a football player, yet shortly after I learn that this isn’t a sport for me – I am always the slower, thinnest and don’t have the power to push other boys. 

Therefore, I start playing table tennis. 

This is my youth: going to school (don’t like it as I am being bullied), training every day and summer camps.

Never been thinking about my future much, at that point I think I can play table tennis, even though I do not have any results pointing out that I have a chance for a career in the sport.

After High school, I don’t know what to do. So I go to study “something”. That “something” being Finance (I hate maths) and 3 years later even graduate from it. I still don’t know what to do but I have 1 option – to move abroad, to Germany. 

I am living in Ludwigshafen am Rhein, Germany. This is the first “real life experience” as I moved here “cold turkey” to learn German. In order to be able to afford the living, I need to work.

First job is illegal one (thats where I took the pic from), where I was literally a physical worker. Now I got a legal job which is Cleaning Staircases. I don’t take many pics now, as I feel extremely ashamed of it and don’t want to document it…

I got my Dream Job!

I landed an internship in a Startup in Berlin. Massive change, from starcaice cleaner to this one!

On top of that the company is a Successful one with great People building it. I am employee #17.

Crazy Period, a lot of learnings, a lot of work but also life in Berlin is an experience in itself!

After almost 3 years I decide to quit, because I do not feel it anymore… I am lost again.

So I …

Buy 1 way ticket to Asia to figure myself out and find my “purpose”.

I Spend there 6 months reading, studying, trying new things out, designing my life and looking for myself. During this period I get fascinated with the topic of the Human Brain and potential it has.

I also experience the power of breath for the first time. Again a lot of learnings and a Life-Impacting experience.

After Asia, I come back to Berlin, where I find myself being even more lost than before.

My “Search” is not done, so I…

Move to Barcelona!

I learn Spanish, Skateboard, and continue to educate myself further and begin to experiment with Reality Creation.

I need more time.

I start getting the answers I did not get in Asia.

I also come up with “You are awesome!” logo & slogan which first becomes my tag on a street.

I am living in 16 bedroom dorm in Rocket Hostel Gracia;)) – that teaches me a lot about human psychology and behavior.

I come back to Berlin, start Freelancing and co-founding a Startup (Pongcruch).

The Idea is to Build Table Tennis League for Startups. It’s working quite well from the Start:

First event – sold out!

Second – twice as many People!

We are excited and planning the third one but then…

pandemic hits and we decide to shut it down…

Being locked in the apartment gives me a lot of time to think and learn more about Reality Creation.

Together with my “Bucket List” I put it into practice.

I desire to experience this “Digital Nomad thing” even though it’s in between Pandemics, but I decide to try it anyway.

It works!

Best decision! I love it! I go to Prague, Budapest, Croatia, Ibiza, Portugal and then it’s end of October, I am in Lisbon and it’s getting colder so I take a look again on my “Bucket List” and …

Go to the Canary Islands just before the Second Lockdown hits…

Again, I have the time of my life.

Locked out from the World, living with people alike myself in a hostel, 1 minute away from the Surfing Beach (Playa de las Canteras).

I am working remote 10H/week and have abundance of time to go learn surfing, read, spend time on the beach, write blog, practice spanish and walk around testing my Reality Creation approaches.

After couple of months, together with new Friends we move to Tenerife and have even more fun, as the Island is more versatile.

I will spend there in total 18 months (Winters & Springs) and in the Summer go to Europe.

Already since a while I have an idea to get a Van and live in it.

I have been testing the idea by renting out Combi Cars and sleeping in them (“If I like this one, I will surely love when I have more space in a proper van”)- is my strategy.

In Autumn 2021 I do an Europe trip in a Camper of a Friend, and then year later, upon returning for the summer from Canaries, find and buy my very own Van, which I drive through Europe from Poland to the Canaries and back.

I continue to study and practice Reality Creation techniques and get into Breathwork.

Upon the Van trip I have clarity on why am I here and what is that I desire to be doing :

Teaching!

Teaching what I have learned through personal experience on the topics of Manifestations & Reality Creation and Conscious Breathing.

I share my teachings on Youtube Channel, both in PL & EN.

I enjoy writing as well – you can get my free ebook or check my articles.

I started a Podcast (in Polish) where I have been talking with my guests about finding their calling in life (Season 1 here).

I share my experience through Speeches, Seminars & Workshops.

I also coach 1-1 & small groups (Discovering Your Calling, Reality Creation, Self-Awareness).